in the wisdom of life need to correct

the other side of life on earth we need to correct the wisdom we need to remember:

Name a scent better than the expensive oil.
Day's death is better than on the day of birth.
Go to the mourning is better than going to the party at the house because of the end of every human dukalah, Let the people who live attention.
Grieve better than the laughing, because the face of dismal create relieved heart.

The Wisdom more people are happy at home but grief gowk happy place to be at home rejoiced.
The wisdom hear people dressing better than listening to the singsong gowk because as the saying burned thorns under kwali laughing so gowk sia2 very day.
Fool people berhikmat extortion and bribe sabotage heart.
Long-suffering better than the high hand.
Do not lekas2 angry because anger in the heart set in the chest schmo.
Do not say "more first-time, better than at the time of it now? Because you are not based on wisdom says that.